In the Name of Love

Love is demystifying. It demystifies that a human is capable of something higher in realms than the stupid Ego fights, wars or quarrels. Love is beautiful when it is respected and the feelings are experienced in complete acceptance without any pride, prejudice and expectations. Expectations kill love. Expectations develop possessiveness. Possessiveness destroys the love. When love is lost, hatred, anger and frustration creeps in.

Look at any young couple around, who are into each other so deeply. How beautiful it is seeing them. When you accept someone’s happiness and enjoyment, a great sense of gratitude flows in you. This is also a result of love, accepting the love in someone and feeling their intimacy. Love is the bond that keeps the humanity together. Movies, dramas and other media project love in dim light. They show only lust, hatred, possessiveness, enmity in the name of love. These are all not love.

Love is beyond the mind’s imagination and desires. Love is the necessity of humanity. It develops without one’s knowledge. In fact, all the knowledge in the world belongs to the dump yard. They only develop Egos. They do not feed the care and compassion which the humanity requires. They feed the mind, they feed the identity of an individual, the real reason for a creepy and negative society. Love is completely opposite to this. For love, object is not required, it is desire less and it is pure.

Love blossoms amidst chaos too. Understanding of love is more important than prostrating it and showing it on big terms. Taj mahal is built for his love they say, but for me it is an act of ego. To show that only he can build the magnificent structure, to possess the beauty of the lady love, to prove that he is the greatest in the world. This is not love. Love is something beyond all these crazy definitions and showoffs. Love is simple, to the earth, basic and raw. At what level it occurs defines the outcome.

Are you ready to fall in love and be a human or want to lead a life full of ego and destroy the humanity in the name of love? Love is everywhere, love is in the air they say. It has significant meaning. Love is like oxygen, it is the necessity for life. Without love life is not possible. Without life the nature cannot survive and becomes meaningless.

Nudity and sexuality

Why there is so much hankering for sex, nudity and genital parts of a human? Why are humans so corrupt? Why are there so much evil behind these? 

I know these are the questions lingering in everyone's mind. I know most of you by now would have declared that sex is bad and hankering for sex is a sin. I know most of you would be condemning your thoughts as well as the entire society for making you mad.

Well, do remember that your body, your whole life is created as a outcome of sex. If you can get this fact, then you wouldn't condemn sex as it is. Now you will ask, then is sex good? So you want us all to have free sex with anyone and everyone? Good question, but your analogy is wrong. The way you fill your mind with the madness of sex is wrong. Why this madness and overload of sexual thoughts in your minds? The reason being, you are being condemned by the society to not to talk or think about sex, really!

The whole of religion, all the religions in the world condemn sexuality. They say it is a sin, of course the whole concept of god (Lord Ganesha, Lord Muruga), son of the god (Jesus) says that only divine beings are born without sexual intercourse. They are the only saints in the world, not others, especially humans. Even our birth is condemned by the society! How hypocritical people are! They condemn even our birth because we were born through intercourse. May be that is the reason why now a days many female are not able to conceive babies, this thought has entered deep into their sub conscious mind perhaps!

The whole world is kept mad, due to conditioning and condemnation. There is chaos everywhere. Even a small child gets raped in every street corner now a days. What is the reason behind it? Your condemnation for sex, nothing else. If the society was left free to discuss and share sexuality, then there will not be such chaos as we see now. In fact that is why in ancient hindu society you see wall paintings with sexual poses. They openly preached sexuality as a natural thing and nothing to be ashamed of. Now look at the society how they are turning out to be. Really shame on humans for condemning everything and anything.

We all love nature, there is no second thought about it, but do you know why? Because nature is nude. They don't cover up like you and I do. They all express their nudeness without fear.

We all love flowers, do you know why? Because they are the genital organs of the plants and trees. What you are capturing on the camera and mobile? It is the vagina of the plants! Without shame and without fear, we are able to enjoy the sexuality of the nature, but not that of our own? How hypocritical this humanity is! I am really perplexed!

Unless and until each and every man realises this nature and lives in harmony with the nature, the madness and chaos that we see in this world will never finish. Accept the nudeness and sexuality in you. You are born without a clothe and die without it. You are born out of sex and will die splitting the seeds in your body, really have you seen any dead man, their semen will spit out and penis will be erect after death.

The nature is beautiful, accept it, do not fight against it, there is beauty in the nature and it is time that you realise this and grow matured enough.

நன்றி சொல்ல கடமை படு

அழகான நாளை ஆரம்பித்த அந்த இனிமையான குரலுக்கு நன்றி - பறவை,

இனிப்புக்கு ஈடு உண்டோ என்று சிந்திக்க வைத்த அந்த முகத்துக்கு நன்றி - காதலி,

சாலையில் நடக்கையில் என் முகத்தில் படும் சிலிர்ப்பான காற்றுக்கு நன்றி - மரங்கள்,

எப்போதுமே முகத்தில் மகிழ்ச்சி ஊட்டும் அந்த மெல்லிய சிரிப்புக்கு நன்றி - நண்பர்கள்!

என்னவென்று சொல்வேன்

இரு இதயம் துடிக்கும் அந்தத்  தருணம் வேண்டும்,

நம் விழிகள் பக்கத்தில் உரசிட வேண்டும்,

தொலைவு இல்லா நெருக்கம் வேண்டும்,

அதில் நாம் ஒருவராகக் கலந்திருக்க வேண்டும்.

எப்போதும் உன் மீதுள்ள அன்பு மறவாதிருக்க வேண்டும்,

அன்பே உன் கரங்களில் நான் வாழ வேண்டும்,

நான் எனும் என்னை மறந்து இருக்க வேண்டும்,

அன்பே நீ மட்டும் என் விழியில் வாழ்ந்திட வேண்டும்.

உடல் இரண்டும் கரையும் இத்தருணத்திலே,

மொழி மறையும் அந்தி மயக்கத்திலே,

என்னை மறந்து உன்னை பார்க்கும் பொழுதினிலே,

சொர்கத்தின் தலைவாசல் திருக்கையிலே.

மனம் என்னும் ஆயுதம் மறையும்,

காதல் என்ற போகம் அடங்கும்,

உணர்வற்ற இத்தருணத்தை,

என்னவென்று சொல்வேன் என் காதலியே.

Naanum rowdythan - my review

There are rarely any realistic movies now a days, all we see is a super hero with godly abilities to trash villains in one go. Naanum Rowdy than, is a movie which is in a rare genre that touches the reality. Our hero Vijay Sethupathi (Pondy Pandi) has got a much wanted image makeover. His neatly shaved and trimmed beard looked much better than his previous images. He is looking handsome in fact and had all the woman audience glued to the screen whenever he was present.

The way our hero aspires to become a ROWDY in this film during the built up to the grown up story adds nice touch to the film and also gives a taste of how the film is going to be – a light hearted comedy story in which our hero acts as a villain but in real is a comedy piece only to be discovered during his love for the heart throbber – Nayanthara (Kadhambari).

Nayanthara does brilliantly her role of a deaf person who watches the lip sync carefully for understanding what the opposite person is saying. She also shows her shy side of not letting others to know that she is deaf and keeps repeating more often than any other person would have actually found J. The story revolves around Nayanthara, who has so much love for her daddy just like any other woman.

Each and every scene is this movie is worth describing, because there is so much brilliance in dialogue, screenplay and acting. All the roles were perfectly played by all the characters. I couldn’t find a single boring scene in the movie, even though some scenes were slow moving at some juncture.

The story goes such that Nayanthara gets into a tangle with a police constable because the constable was responsible for breaking her mobile; the police doesn’t know that she is deaf and lands up in police station, only for our Hero’s mother to notice that she is deaf and lets her after knowing that her father is also a police officer.

Our hero follows Nayanthara from here and the scenes that follow is sure to add sugar to our eyes and ears, there is so much fun in everything that the hero does to turn the girls attention without knowing that she is deaf. Finally they end up striking a conversation and our hero finds out that she is deaf and his love grows for her from this moment. Their relationship start in the form of exchanging mobile phones and sim card and finally forget exchanging them back after hero’s mother comes in between them.

The follow up of events from here adds laughter as well as tears to our eyes. There is an external enmity between Nayanthara’s father and a politician turned gangster Parthiban (Killivalavan; yes you heard it right). They play a cat and mouse game and finally the villain ends up killing Nayan’s mother and father. Nayan wants to take revenge on the villain for killing her mother, without knowing that her father also gets killed while her relationship with hero is developing.

How our hero hides this news and tries to take revenge on the villain is the crux of the story. RJ Balaji does a superb job which is expected out of him by siding with hero and helping him in his plans to kill the villain. One particular scene in the state highway where they stall the villain’s car and make him run does add so much humor to the entire story. Parthiban is chased by another politician villain (Mansoor) and also by our hero, who both thatch a plan to get him killed but don’t succeed.

The climax is yet another twist in the story, which is worth watching than describing in words here. It sure is going to add lots of laughter in all of us. But the crux of the story is same – the hero in trying to become a villain ends up being a comedian. Yet our heroine doesn’t know this! The rest is history!! Definitely a must watch movie, if you are either a Vijay Sethupathi or Nayanthara fan. Even if you are not a fan of either, you can watch this film for its realistic nature of events and/or script. Director Vignesh Shivan has hit the jackpot with his debut movie!