Nov 13, 2019

Freedom of speech and the current society


Freedom of speech and the current society

While Johnny was crossing the road, he accidentally steps on a cockroach and the cockroach dies in that impact. This is a small and insignificant incident in everyone’s life. We might have killed many such living things without our consciousness, we will never come to know the count. The passersby who notice and even those who don’t notice it directly will always judge us and make passing comments. This is how the society is and was. Thanks to the social media and freedom of speech as a constitutional right of every citizen in India, the words that are spoken are unlimited to even fit in the current Oxford dictionary.

It is said that people living in a joint family have a better memory power when compared to those who live in the nuclear family setup. The reason, as per psychologists and psychiatrists is that in a joint family setup, the family members speak about topics and share their memories time and again just like how it is played in a tape recorder again and again. This helps in people retaining their memories and moments better. Thanks to the social media, the nuclear family members are not left out. They get reminded about events, memories and instances in almost every site/social media app. Facebook is the frontrunner in such memory retaining technique.

Coming back to the above-mentioned insignificant incident, the passerby has plenty of options to express their feelings on the social media. Social media is filled with applications which gives users a host of options to express things in a catchy way. We have known that social media and the internet is a double-edged sword. Every innovation has both benefits and drawbacks. If the feelings that we share in the social media creates a positive impact on the reader’s life then we call it positive, else if it creates more hysteria and negative impression to life, we call it as negative.

Every government all over the world is suffering to cut down the nuisances and disturbances created in the social media. Along with the feelings expressed on the social media comes the issue of privacy and security. In the European Union, almost everyday the social media innovators are called for many kinds of discussions. These discussions mainly are to do with suppressing the fake news, privacy of individuals and the likes. The more we discuss the more complicated it becomes. Life comes to a full stop. Everything in the end stops at the point where it begins. It is the self, it is how we feel or express. It is how we perceive things. It is how tolerant we are towards each other.

There are plenty of pseudo intellects in the society who knows how to create disturbance in the society. It is a fun for them to see people taking up law in their own hands to seek justice to their own selfish emotions. I might be judgmental about this claim you may think. Let it be. I have been watching the trend of social media and the generic societal behavior. It is enough if everyone observes how the feel, react and express their feelings to others in personal relationships to find out who we really are. Then it is easy to follow the societal pattern and be judgmental about it. Without inner realization, we cannot realize the truth, the basics of human psychology and behavior.

“A moron has intentionally stepped on the helpless cockroach while walking, where are we heading.” – this is the trending headlines in Facebook, Twitter and other social media apps. This small headline grabs the attention of people. The reason being is simple, we are being fed with negative headlines for many years now and the media knows that what grabs the attention of the people is the negative story line. But has anyone even thought why we are so attentive the negative headlines rather than the positive ones that every media covers too?

If we start with exploring this point, then we will unveil the personality hidden in us. Once that is unveiled, we will start to question self. The things we like, we see, and we desire. Then it is easy to understand the whole psychology of perception. Our own perception would change. We will stop rejecting the societal headlines. We will stop rejecting the negative news channels and news creators in this world. That is the starting point of self-realization for me. The social media has positive news and content also, but many of us miss to see them due to the busy bombardment of reality shows, competitions like “America/India got talent” and etc. We get lost in the jungle. Someone rightly said internet is a jungle. We need to tread our path carefully and consciously.

Sep 7, 2018

In the Name of Love


Love is demystifying. It demystifies that a human is capable of something higher in realms than the stupid Ego fights, wars or quarrels. Love is beautiful when it is respected and the feelings are experienced in complete acceptance without any pride, prejudice and expectations. Expectations kill love. Expectations develop possessiveness. Possessiveness destroys the love. When love is lost, hatred, anger and frustration creeps in.

Look at any young couple around, who are into each other so deeply. How beautiful it is seeing them. When you accept someone’s happiness and enjoyment, a great sense of gratitude flows in you. This is also a result of love, accepting the love in someone and feeling their intimacy. Love is the bond that keeps the humanity together. Movies, dramas and other media project love in dim light. They show only lust, hatred, possessiveness, enmity in the name of love. These are all not love.

Love is beyond the mind’s imagination and desires. Love is the necessity of humanity. It develops without one’s knowledge. In fact, all the knowledge in the world belongs to the dump yard. They only develop Egos. They do not feed the care and compassion which the humanity requires. They feed the mind, they feed the identity of an individual, the real reason for a creepy and negative society. Love is completely opposite to this. For love, object is not required, it is desire less and it is pure.

Love blossoms amidst chaos too. Understanding of love is more important than prostrating it and showing it on big terms. Taj mahal is built for his love they say, but for me it is an act of ego. To show that only he can build the magnificent structure, to possess the beauty of the lady love, to prove that he is the greatest in the world. This is not love. Love is something beyond all these crazy definitions and showoffs. Love is simple, to the earth, basic and raw. At what level it occurs defines the outcome.

Are you ready to fall in love and be a human or want to lead a life full of ego and destroy the humanity in the name of love? Love is everywhere, love is in the air they say. It has significant meaning. Love is like oxygen, it is the necessity for life. Without love life is not possible. Without life the nature cannot survive and becomes meaningless.

Apr 25, 2018

Nudity and sexuality

Why there is so much hankering for sex, nudity and genital parts of a human? Why are humans so corrupt? Why are there so much evil behind these? 

I know these are the questions lingering in everyone's mind. I know most of you by now would have declared that sex is bad and hankering for sex is a sin. I know most of you would be condemning your thoughts as well as the entire society for making you mad.


Well, do remember that your body, your whole life is created as a outcome of sex. If you can get this fact, then you wouldn't condemn sex as it is. Now you will ask, then is sex good? So you want us all to have free sex with anyone and everyone? Good question, but your analogy is wrong. The way you fill your mind with the madness of sex is wrong. Why this madness and overload of sexual thoughts in your minds? The reason being, you are being condemned by the society to not to talk or think about sex, really!


The whole of religion, all the religions in the world condemn sexuality. They say it is a sin, of course the whole concept of god (Lord Ganesha, Lord Muruga), son of the god (Jesus) says that only divine beings are born without sexual intercourse. They are the only saints in the world, not others, especially humans. Even our birth is condemned by the society! How hypocritical people are! They condemn even our birth because we were born through intercourse. May be that is the reason why now a days many female are not able to conceive babies, this thought has entered deep into their sub conscious mind perhaps!


The whole world is kept mad, due to conditioning and condemnation. There is chaos everywhere. Even a small child gets raped in every street corner now a days. What is the reason behind it? Your condemnation for sex, nothing else. If the society was left free to discuss and share sexuality, then there will not be such chaos as we see now. In fact that is why in ancient hindu society you see wall paintings with sexual poses. They openly preached sexuality as a natural thing and nothing to be ashamed of. Now look at the society how they are turning out to be. Really shame on humans for condemning everything and anything.


We all love nature, there is no second thought about it, but do you know why? Because nature is nude. They don't cover up like you and I do. They all express their nudeness without fear.


We all love flowers, do you know why? Because they are the genital organs of the plants and trees. What you are capturing on the camera and mobile? It is the vagina of the plants! Without shame and without fear, we are able to enjoy the sexuality of the nature, but not that of our own? How hypocritical this humanity is! I am really perplexed!


Unless and until each and every man realises this nature and lives in harmony with the nature, the madness and chaos that we see in this world will never finish. Accept the nudeness and sexuality in you. You are born without a clothe and die without it. You are born out of sex and will die splitting the seeds in your body, really have you seen any dead man, their semen will spit out and penis will be erect after death.


The nature is beautiful, accept it, do not fight against it, there is beauty in the nature and it is time that you realise this and grow matured enough.

Sep 13, 2017

நன்றி சொல்ல கடமை படு

அழகான நாளை ஆரம்பித்த அந்த இனிமையான குரலுக்கு நன்றி - பறவை,
இனிப்புக்கு ஈடு உண்டோ என்று சிந்திக்க வைத்த அந்த முகத்துக்கு நன்றி - காதலி,
சாலையில் நடக்கையில் என் முகத்தில் படும் சிலிர்ப்பான காற்றுக்கு நன்றி - மரங்கள்,

எப்போதுமே முகத்தில் மகிழ்ச்சி ஊட்டும் அந்த மெல்லிய சிரிப்புக்கு நன்றி - நண்பர்கள்!

Sep 8, 2017

என்னவென்று சொல்வேன்

இரு இதயம் துடிக்கும் அந்தத்  தருணம் வேண்டும்,
நம் விழிகள் பக்கத்தில் உரசிட வேண்டும்,
தொலைவு இல்லா நெருக்கம் வேண்டும்,
அதில் நாம் ஒருவராகக் கலந்திருக்க வேண்டும்.

எப்போதும் உன் மீதுள்ள அன்பு மறவாதிருக்க வேண்டும்,
அன்பே உன் கரங்களில் நான் வாழ வேண்டும்,
நான் எனும் என்னை மறந்து இருக்க வேண்டும்,
அன்பே நீ மட்டும் என் விழியில் வாழ்ந்திட வேண்டும்.

உடல் இரண்டும் கரையும் இத்தருணத்திலே,
மொழி மறையும் அந்தி மயக்கத்திலே,
என்னை மறந்து உன்னை பார்க்கும் பொழுதினிலே,
சொர்கத்தின் தலைவாசல் திருக்கையிலே.

மனம் என்னும் ஆயுதம் மறையும்,
காதல் என்ற போகம் அடங்கும்,
உணர்வற்ற இத்தருணத்தை,

என்னவென்று சொல்வேன் என் காதலியே.